Monday, August 31, 2009

"The High Price of Too Much Stuff"


I found this astute MSN article in an old post on the Unclutterer blog.
It resonated with me...so I thought I'd share it with you.

MSN Money columnist MP Dunleavey talks about...


“The High Price of Too Much Stuff”


"Never mind that we live in a culture that encourages constant consumption. Or that few can afford all the stuff that is supposedly part of the American dream. Or that debt is a drag on your personal financial health.

The relentless focus on having and buying and wanting and owning — and using your credit card or your home equity to cover it — has landed us here: with crates of things we don’t need, stuffed into compartments where we never see it, throwing yet more money down the drain for the meaningless thrill of knowing we have it.

Why? Because we don’t want to admit we were wrong, that buying all that stuff didn’t add up to what we had hoped.

When I drive past those ugly, sprawling storage facilities, or even the bright cheery ones, I feel depressed. Someday these early years of the 21st century will be remembered as the Crazy Aughts, a time when Americans spent more money on nothing than ever before in our history.

And we are not richer, we are not happier, for all that getting and spending."

Original MSN post date: August 27, 2008

Friday, August 21, 2009

GREEN AND NATURAL PARENTING: BOOK REVIEW

Photo: Green and Natural Parenting



We live in a society that almost always seem to emphasize that a good life full of luxuries requires lots of money. This book [Frugal Luxuries] shows how this just isn’t so. It also shows how being frugal is an art we can cultivate to improve our lives and simplify them or perhaps even realize that we already have all the luxuries we need and value...

Click HERE to read the full article.

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Green and Natural Parenting is an inspiring blog, chock full of valuable sources and interesting ideas for how to live a frugally luxurious life while remaining conscious and respectful of our resources (personal and en mass).


Tiffany, who writes this inspiring blog, is a Kindred Spirit who offers her own unique and valuable perspective on simple, frugal living. Please go visit her and say "hello" when you have a moment.

You can visit Tiffany by clicking HERE.




Monday, July 27, 2009

Twenty minute Simple Skirt Tutorial!

Kindred Spirits and a Twenty Minute
Up-Cycled Skirt

Sage at Sage and Simple has a post about making an up-cycled skirt without a pattern, using recycled fabric. She found the idea from another amazingly creative blog called
Shabby Apple: Grosgrain Fabulous



Monday, June 29, 2009

Nurturning a Pioneer Spirit: De Mystifying Food Canning

Click HERE to learn more about the mundane miracle of home food canning!

Saturday, June 20, 2009

: Be(A)Ware of the Foot in the Door Tactic...

This article from The Simple Dollar offers important insight on the way our brains work when it comes to buying/spending and building sales resistance. It's not too long and offers some very valuable points!

You can read it here:
The Simple Dollar

Monday, June 15, 2009

Strapped for cash? Many make extra money through online sales : Life : The Buffalo News

I LOVE EBAY, AMAZON, ETSY and HALF.COM for buying and selling frugally online! This is an encouraging and informative article on how to use these resources to supplement your income (i.e. MAKE MONEY).
Warmly,
Tracey
Strapped for cash? Many make extra money through online sales : Life : The Buffalo News

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Friday, June 12, 2009

The Classic Snowflake Technique...

Snowflaking - A Primer. I've Paid For This Twice Already...

I just stumbled on this classic article regarding simplified, easy, debt repayment. Reading this re-motivated me to think before I spend and thus keep on track financially. What do you think?

Warmly,
Tracey

Snowflaking - A Primer | I've Paid For This Twice Already...

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Thursday, June 11, 2009

Pursuit of Happiness & Hope

"You can't pursue happiness and catch it. Happiness comes upon you unawares while you are helping others. The philosophy of happiness is pointedly expressed in the old Hindu proverb, which reads: "Help thy brother's boat across, and lo! thine own has reached the shore." "

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Good Morning Good Souls...

I found this video very interesting!
It's a little long (about twenty minutes) but if you can watch/listen to the entire thing
I highly recommend it..
I listened to it as I checked my email.

Ahh...the happiness of multi-tasking!

Warmly,
Tracey



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Beautiful things to Share

Beautiful things to Share

The laughter of a baby is among my TOP frugal luxuries!
Sweet Charmaine, at Beautiful Things to Share has a Smile-Inducing Post with baby videos from Utube that will just make your day to watch. If you're stressed, watching these could surely shift your state.

Warmly,
Tracey

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Swaptree - trade books, CDs, DVDs, and video games for free

FRUGAL LUXURY ALERT (TM) !!

I"ve just stumbled upon this site that offers FREE Books...CD's...and...Video Games!! It has "frugal luxury" and "environmentally friendly" written all over it!!

Plus...you can declutter your shelves at the same time by offering your extra books and the like for free (of course, no obligation required)!

Check Swaptree.com and let me know what you think!

Warmly,
Tracey

Swaptree - trade books, CDs, DVDs, and video games for free

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Friday, May 22, 2009

WIN THIS BOOK! Frugal Luxuries: Simple Pleasures to Enhance Your Life & Comfort Your Soul!


How?

Simply share one of your favorite frugal luxury or luxuries...

by clicking...

HERE !

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

KLEID ANDERN

KLEID ANDERN
Here is a blog for people who love lovely things!
A True Kindred Spirit!!
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Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Edible Transformations TM in Under 15 Minutes!


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to see how to transform this...


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Done in a mere 15 minutes!!

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

At Long Last...a Winner Has Been Revealed!!



Thursday, April 9, 2009

Eclectic Catladyland: Unexpected Gifts

Eclectic Catladyland: Unexpected Gifts

Angie's post today offers grace, inspiration and a much needed laugh (at sometimes trying circumstances).

Tuesday, April 7, 2009


In honor of the season of Spring, we are giving away a book…

Frugal Luxuries by the Seasons!

Click HERE to enter…

Friday, April 3, 2009

WHO... WILL BRING HOME THE VINTAGE GARDEN URN? FIND OUT HERE...

TODAY...IS...THE...DAY!
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"Verily great grace may go with a little gift"


--Theocritus






Thank you so much to all of you kind souls who took the time to enter your blogs and their descriptions! As promised, I asked Rosie to chose a name from the many entries.


That's Rosie's hand...choosing a name!

She pulled out this slip.
CONGRATULATIONS TO... sbarnesmomo4

Sarah writes an amazing blog, Barnes of Grace. On it she tracks and lists current web give-aways for those of us addicted to entering such things!


(Is it just me, or is this win a little ironic?)




Sarah will receive this garden urn with the nest and egg embellishments!


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Once again, I'd like to extend a tremendous....

THANK YOU

to all of you kindred spirits who entered!!



Please check NEXT WEEK when

I will be giving away a book...



Frugal Luxuries by the Seasons!



Wednesday, March 25, 2009

OUR VERY FIRST GIVE-AWAY...TO ENTER...SIMPLY ADD YOUR BLOG TO OUR "KINDRED SPIRIT RESOURCES" LIST!


WIN THIS

EASTER-EGG-FILLED-WHITE-IRON-URN

Our Very First Give Away includes...


The Rustic, White-Iron Urn....


As well as the nest and decoupaged egg embellishments.


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Okay my good souls, it's time for my very first...

GIVE AWAY!!


This is being held in honor of my decision to TRANSFORM Kindred Spirits Letters INTO a RESOURCE BLOG.

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TO ENTER...

simply add your blog link and tell us what your blog is about...it can be as short or as long as you like. (If you have more than one blog, please feel free to list them all!)



How to Add Your Blog:


1. Tell us about your blog or blogs in the COMMENTS section of the most current post.



2. Be sure to leave your blog link/address so other Kindred Spirits can discover you and partake of all the wonders you have to contribute.



3. Feel free to invite friends to join us (as many or as few as you want). Consider this list as a shared resource for all of us who wish to practice frugality in all its forms. You may also list other blogs you think we will enjoy and/or find useful.



PLEASE NOTE:

The list is OPEN TO ALL BLOGS...no matter the degree of frugality.

  • If you know how to wring a dollar dry...WE NEED YOU.

  • If you are all about enriching life with bits of beauty, creativity and lightness...WE NEED YOU.

  • If you're somewhere in between...WE NEED YOU!
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Our common bond is that we all understand that the quality of being frugal is one so powerful as to change lives and affect history.

We know that frugality in all its forms allows us to govern our destiny and produce in our lives a lovely, fertile garden of material and intangible wealth. Without it, we may be tossed upon the waves of circumstance, at the mercy of unorganized whims.


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WE'LL CHOOSE THE WINNER
RANDOMLY FROM THE COMMENTS LIST!



Monday, December 1, 2008

THE BEAUTY OF A HAND-WROUGHT GIFT


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"That irregular and intimate quality of things made entire
ly by the human hand."
--Willa Cather

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Dear Tracey, ....Your efforts to cultivate the gifts of heart and home are so appreciated. I, too, am unwilling to give up style, beauty, and happiness while trying to live within our means.

I have many frugal ideas I'd like to share with you. I love to send notes of encouragement and good thoughts to friends and family. I believe that sending them in a handmade card speaks volumes more than my words. Making cards is also an outlet for my creativity.

Several friends and I get together every few months and let the children play while we madly make cards and share ideas. The cards are not only attractive and thoughtful, but incredibly inexpensive!

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HOW TO MAKE MARIAN'S GREETING CARDS:

~Buy 8 x 11 inch pieces of card stock (about six to ten cents apiece) at a paper or photocopy store...or use what you have on hand (cut large poster paper to size...or?)

~Cut each 8 x 11-inch card stock paper in half....then fold that in half. You will end up with two 4 x 4-inch cards.

~From fabric, cut out designs (i.e., hearts, flowers or other shapes--I often make a quilt-type pattern) and iron them on the front of each card. Use inexpensive iron-on webbing to adhere fabric to paper (follow the manufacturers directions).

~Outline, or "quilt" around the fabric design to make a border, or write a message. A Micron 01 pen works best, but a ballpoint pen will work in a pinch (or a fine-point Sharpie, just be careful that it doesn't bleed through the paper).

~Embellish each card with raffia (I often tie it into tiny bows), ribbons, buttons and so forth.

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Again, best wishes with your new book. I am anxiously awaiting its publication. Remember, take time out for you and your family amidst the work

With Love,
Marian Underdahl
Idaho

Monday, October 13, 2008

SHARING GRACIOUS MEMORIES of DEPRESSION ERA

"CREATIVITY IS A POOR MAN'S WEALTH"
---Ancient Adage
Dear Mrs. McBride,

     The Tampa Tribune Times.... gave a report giving your perspective on a frugal lifestyle.  I readily identified with your principles, as I have lived frugally all my life, having had the benefit of being a child in the Great Depression of the 1930's.  Money was not as important as "class".  As every family was pinched financially, it was not money that set people apart but attitude, education, manners, proper use of the English language, high moral values, and a preference for quality goods.  Nearly all of these can be acquired with a minimum expenditure of money.  I would like to share a few ideas that have been a great help to me in enjoying gracious living with my family.

      The evening dinner can become a time for family instruction and appreciation of the "finer things in life."  It is good to serve dinner in the dining room  with the table set tastefully.  Watch for bargains like this at garage sales and thrift shops, to create a beautiful table:

  • Attractive jars for jams and jellies
  • Linen and damask table napkins are often sold very inexpensively by people who cannot be bothered ironing them.   (Iron them while they are damp or wet--I recently bought six in pristine condition at ten cents apiece.)
  • English bone china cups saucers, and serving dishes.
  • Silver serving pieces for the table. I recently purchased a silver coffeepot for three dollars, black with tarnish.  It polished up beautifully.  These things may be used every day, not just for special occasions.  For an elegant table, avoid using anything plastic.
  • Have a centerpiece on the dining table made of garden flowers, flowering weeds, leaves or other fresh flowers.  Approach churches to obtain surplus flowers following ceremonies.  (I have obtained enough flowers to decorate our own church for a wedding.)
  • When dinner seems rather skimpy and dull, serve something special, like muffins hot from the oven, and your family will forget that the first part wasn't all that wonderful.
     I once came upon a saying that "creativity  is a poor man's wealth."  It certainly is a great help to develop this talent in order to achieve one's lifestyle in a frugal way.  ( It is easy to do, even if a person does not consider themselves to be "creative".)

Sincerely,
Jeanne Jeffries
FL

Monday, October 6, 2008

A BETTER PLACE

"When I was at home, I was in a better place."
---William Shakespeare
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Dearest Tracey,
Originating from Massachusetts, my family was taught about being frugal early on in our lives. We learned about squeezing the "Yankee dime," from our grandparents, aunts, uncles, and parents--just as a normal way of thinking and acting.
My mother was (and remains) a super cook and, to this day, she still scrapes the butter wrapper to get that last smidgen of butter, and still uses her finger (clean!) to get the last drop out of the eggshell (perhaps this is why her cakes are always so moist and yummy!). Of course, paper towels (an early luxury) were often found drying over the kitchen faucet--after all, they were only used to dry already clean hands, and could be reused! Diluted shampoo, kept in a recycled, clean catsup bottle over the washing machine, was used to remove "ring around the collar," as well as on grimy cuffs and other stained areas of clothing.
My favorite way of having frugal fun is to save quarters. (We collect these in a pretty, salt-glazed pottery pitcher.) Every three months, my husband and I treat ourselves to our "quarterly night out." It is amazing to me that we usually have fifty to seventy dollars to spend from this quarter collection!
Before our date, I take the quarters with me to our movie rental store, dry cleaner, mini-market, bookstore, and so on, and exchange them for bills as I am transacting my necessary business. These small establishments truly enjoy and appreciate receiving the quarters, as they use them for making change. (And this saves my husband and me the trouble of lugging a bunch of jangling quarter to our favorite restaurant.)
These "quarterly nights out" are such a treat for my husband and me--especially because we feel so frivolous and decadent! We have found them to be such a nice way to splurge on ourselves, and support our time out together (and the strategy is relatively painless, financially, and very enjoyable to boot)!
I thought you and your readers might enjoy hearing about all of the above, and perhaps be inspired to create your own frugality and fun in a kindred manner!
Warm regards from your faith reader...
Susan Vrh
California

Monday, September 29, 2008

SPIRITUAL LUXURY

Dear Tracey,

I cannot tell you how I am enjoying Frugal Luxuries. You have been able to articulate the way I think but am not always able to express...I work at living the life you describe in your book. Daily I go about my activities in a peaceful and gentle way.

After two decades of not working [outside the home], I took a job in a shop downtown--a job I thoroughly enjoyed. However, after two and a half years, I gave my resignation. For me, the reason was "to have time to lean on the end of my broom after sweeping." Your book suggests this same simple attitude about daily life. To most, I would think, it all sounds too simple or maybe like a fairy tale--but I am living proof that it works.

Keep sowing the seeds of simplicity. I love it--a truly lost art.

Carolyn McDonald

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Wisdom in Youth

Dear Tracey,

All of my life I have been learning from my mother ways to save money.....but you have brought a true beauty to the subject through your....Frugal Luxuries [books].

It seems that the attitude of the modern world in which we live tells us that in order to be fullfilled and entertained we must always spend a lot of money. In my opinion this attitude is not only expensive, it is boring!

As a twenty-year-old woman, I have....been made to feel that I was strange because I believe it is important that my surroundings be atttractive.... . But you have reassured me that I am normal when aspiring to live beautifully but simply, in every aspect of my life.

Thank you for being a kindred spirit. You have given me self-confidence in who I am...an individual who is searching for deeper meaning in life (and this you cannot find in any store).

God bless you in all your work.

Yours,

Tabitha Higgins
Ohio

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

A LITTLE PORCH

This is a letter from a long time kindred spirit, Pat Belmonte!
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A Little Porch
"In those vernal seasons of the year, when the air is calm and pleasant,
It were an injury.... against Nature not to go out and see her riches,
And partake in her rejoicing with heaven and earth."
--John Milton
Dear Tracey,
I wanted to tell you that I too have evolved into a morning person. I have seen the new day slowly light up, heard the birds waking, and watched the bunnies play.
I am fortunate enough to have a screened porch that is my "frugal luxury." On summer nights I have sat in the dark and watched thousands of lightning bugs/fireflies. They light up the bushes and trees like little Italian lights at Christmastime.
In the fall, I enjoy the faint smell of burning leaves and soak-in the sight of the changing colors of the leaves on the trees.
Winter gives me a life-size Christmas card. The trees are all covered with pure white. (Ice storms make it all sparkle like crystal.). Bright red cardinals and beautiful blue jays perch here and there among the branches.
In spring, I can sit out in the soft showers and not get wet. I watch everything turn green and know I'll get to see it all over again.
All this from a little porch! Now that's a frugal luxury!
Love,
Pat Belmonte
Crown Pointe, IN